Our topic for November is mystery. How often do we really let things just be in the realm of mystery? And what would/could be the benefit?
Personally, I tend to lean to the controlling side of that spectrum. I think it's due to lots of factors, including personality, privilege and gender identity. But in any case, I spent a lot of my life wanting to create just-right situations for myself and the people I care about (note: the people I care about includes you, :).
But part of creating the just-right situation, includes thinking that we know what is just right. I can spend all kinds of time planning, thinking of potential variables, a